<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525014001910482554.post367209922954367008..comments</id><updated>2009-02-09T17:13:08.019-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Pomegranate*Mind*Spot: A COMMON SITUATION</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.pomegrantmindspot.com/feeds/367209922954367008/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/367209922954367008/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.pomegrantmindspot.com/2009/02/common-situation.html'/><author><name>A.E. Bayne</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04700055696097294939</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>3</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525014001910482554.post-5073394866542580876</id><published>2009-02-09T17:13:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-09T17:13:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I am very familiar with this kind of dynamic, as y...</title><content type='html'>I am very familiar with this kind of dynamic, as you both have heard me say.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;It's odd that I posted this at this time, because I found out today that a dear friend from Kent is starting experimental treatment for cancer that has invaded most of his organs.  The news really shocked me, and I feel a lot of regret at not having made more of an effort to see him the last time I drove through Kent (a couple of years ago).  He was busy, I couldn't stay long, etc., etc.  Life.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Brian is 44 and one of the nicest people I have ever met in my entire life.  He has two sons, 8and 10.  I have this great picture of him swinging Xaviar into the air when X was about three and they're both just laughing.  He was always laughing when I knew him.  I have thought of him often since I left Kent.  I'm thinking about him right now, and wishing him peace until we meet again.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/367209922954367008/comments/default/5073394866542580876'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/367209922954367008/comments/default/5073394866542580876'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.pomegrantmindspot.com/2009/02/common-situation.html?showComment=1234217580000#c5073394866542580876' title=''/><author><name>A.E. Bayne</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04700055696097294939</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15461956538002198950'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.pomegrantmindspot.com/2009/02/common-situation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525014001910482554.post-367209922954367008' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/posts/default/367209922954367008' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525014001910482554.post-8986692769708593777</id><published>2009-02-09T13:44:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-09T13:44:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I agree with Emily, intense.  It made my squirm cu...</title><content type='html'>I agree with Emily, intense.  It made my squirm cuz I'm not comfortable with that kind of conflict. I'm blessed with a family that respects boundaries, so the conversation would've stopped when I said I didn't want to talk about it...and then I would've talked about it when I was ready.  From a mom's perspective, however, I can so relate to feeling helpless and wanting to know and wanting to fix it, or find a fix.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Not sure how I'd feel about seeing this performed, unless there was a comedic touch added. I remember not liking all the yelling in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof and Who's Afraid of Virginia Wolf?&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;You captured the essence of this kind of conflict well, Amy.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/367209922954367008/comments/default/8986692769708593777'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/367209922954367008/comments/default/8986692769708593777'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.pomegrantmindspot.com/2009/02/common-situation.html?showComment=1234205040000#c8986692769708593777' title=''/><author><name>kloppsan</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.pomegrantmindspot.com/2009/02/common-situation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525014001910482554.post-367209922954367008' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/posts/default/367209922954367008' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525014001910482554.post-1166487873425301358</id><published>2009-02-08T18:09:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-08T18:09:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>whoooo! intense! That was hard to read, but only b...</title><content type='html'>whoooo! intense! That was hard to read, but only because I can relate to both sides. Well, that and I wanted to smack them both. Would be nice if we could see this on an actual stage. Hey Janelle!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/367209922954367008/comments/default/1166487873425301358'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/367209922954367008/comments/default/1166487873425301358'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.pomegrantmindspot.com/2009/02/common-situation.html?showComment=1234134540000#c1166487873425301358' title=''/><author><name>emily</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01011398877829806006</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.pomegrantmindspot.com/2009/02/common-situation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525014001910482554.post-367209922954367008' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3525014001910482554/posts/default/367209922954367008' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>